Hey Guys,

DaveC here. Recently I’ve been getting a lot of sex from social circle girls… A lot.

It’s gotten to the point where Mehow is having to tell me to put that social circle girl down and get back into the field to do some good old fashioned cold approach so I don’t get rusty.

Here’s the thing though, experimentation breeds creativity and with some thorough testing I’m now happy to bring you a new social circle model specifically tailored to dealing with the big problem with social circle game: The girls that are expecting you to hit on them.

Maybe you’re only doing social circle, maybe you have a reputation as a player… Maybe she is coming to the house pre-warned that you are a PUA “POOAAAAAAAH!” dude.

Whatever the case this is the ‘method’ that will enable you to overcome her distrust and win her over. I’ve field tested this pretty consistently and after passing it onto Mehow just a week ago he’s already used it to pull 2 girls to his bedroom, one who knew what he did for a living and a second who came to the house to do a model shoot for a good friend (fyi, models showing up to shoots are always wary due to all the shady photographers trying to screw them).

Before I continue I just wanna take a second to clarify some things about social circle game in general and make it clear where we are coming from.

Firstly social circle game still requires a decent level of game in and of itself, as such we’d still always recommend that guys start with night game to get them up to speed and start the game building process.

(Mehow EDIT: I would say that trying to do social circle when you have no cold approach is just going to result in fail – social circle is only easy in that there is no approach anxiety – otherwise its different game, not easier)

Secondly, social circles are built on mutual value, i.e. you are constantly inviting the girls to something cool and vice versa. As time progresses your regular social circle girls will continue to bring new and different girls into the group for you.

Thirdly, you must never sleep with those girls that are the ‘seed’ girls, i.e. they bring new girls to your entourage overtime and thus sleeping with them will make them both i) want to be your girlfriend and ii) have them stop the flow of new girls.

Finally, social circle game should be ran discretely, which means keep what you and certain girls get up to quiet and don’t make big overt moves in front of all her friends and the rest of your social circle.

Meet HB9skinny_bitch

So just the other day a stunning girl walked in the house, easily a 9 both in body and personality. I initially ignored her and remained distant but to everyone else I was the cool, normal center of the party.

I effortlessly gave value to everyone around me, except Ashley. When it came time to go clubbing with the entourage I started talking to Ashley. I was completely genuine building comfort and being normal. When I saw that the conversation was getting too normal for a club I ran banter on everyone around me; the nearest person. Then back to comfort with her.

She was all over me. Then I found out it was Mehow’s girl and he continued doing the same thing till she was back in his room that night.

So what did I actually do?

Ok, so to start with the classic pick up technique applies, you break rapport disproportionally. You can’t go to far with this as then you cross over into social violation territory but you remain distant, this is not normal social circle behaviour for a guy and she will wonder why you aren’t all up on her, especially if she is attractive.

The other key thing is that you are constantly delivering emotional value and highly stimulating yet self amusing content to the rest of the social circle as normal. If there is one girl that you usually go over the top with / can over game for fun because she knows that’s what you are like.

This demonstrates several attractive characteristics such as being the life of the party, that you are a fun and cool guy… It further creates that question “Why isn’t he like this with me?”

Then later, ideally at a party event you can simply start talking to her, I like to start with: “Hey, I’m Dave, I haven’t really talked to you, I’m at the asshole recovery meetings… I’m on step 1.” She laughs and you get super genuine with her, you aren’t treating her how she expects you to, with everyone else you’re joking and fun but with her you seem to be real.

When buying temperature goes down you run banter (and 10SSA) on the other girls in your social circle, you can also mess with your guy friends too to create the same value.

Now you’ve created a real connection the interaction will start to move back to a normal pick up. Better yet we’ve had girls in our social circle say things like: “I’m so glad you were just chill and normal with .”

This shift in their perception has them bringing more girls over and we are free to do this as many times as we want.

So to summarise, this isn’t the normal social circle method, this is the method when you start hitting on a social circle girl and encounter disinterest and challenges you swap into this method and take it from there.

-D

(Mehow summary:

The Two “phases” to the “New Social CircleTM” Method:
1. ignore the target and run BT game on everybody else (“I’m Rick James, Bitch”) – 15-30 mins
2. be super nice to the target (almost “chode-like”) while you Rick James everybody else.

And this only works when you have a ton of logistical control and everybody can easily hear you – like at your house or if you have good club logistics.)

P.S. It’s still super important to run regular cold approach and build the skillset because that’ll give you the reference points to become consistent.

Plus cold approach pick up is fun, see Exhibit A: