All our bootcamps have been cancelled.

So why on earth would I cancel something that
has been so successful for us .. that in 7 years of
coaching we’ve never once given out a refund?

That would be because we came up with something even more
effective.

Here is the problem with the “pua community bootcamp”

Its usually a meat grinder where a ton of guys come to learn
from a few instructors.

All fine and dandy until its time to go infield
and the best you as a student can hope for is a 3-to-1
student to instructor ratio.

Here is the deal.

All your actual progress isn’t made in a seminar room

Its made in the field.

And with a 3 to 1 ratio its literally impossible to deliver
the level of detail attention a student needs to break through in one night.
(see below for the exact technical reason why)

Not to mention the entire bar getting ‘used up’ in 5 minutes
cause 10 bootcamp students hit it.
(have you ever tried to open a set that another student
just got blown out of … its painful)

Or a bunch of guys using similar openers.

When a ‘bootcamp’ descends on a bar its
a shitty experience almost immediately for all
the women in that venue and I hate doing it.

So from now till forever – WERE NEVER DOING
INFIEDL BOOTCAMPS

All we do now is 1:1 … as in ONE on ONEs. Privates, whatever
you want to call them.

One instructor per infield student. FOREVER. Period.

The reason is that we have an awful lot of private clients and residentials in the last year we’ve perfected our 1:1 coaching to the point that its SOO MUCH better then group coaching that there is really no comparison (and our group coachign has always gotten rave reviews anyway)

Yes, i know im tossing out a ton of money by doing things this way but our other revenue sources (upcoming TV stuff, nationally published book, IM biz in general) are all doing well enough…

That i can afford to just NOT DO WHAT every other pickup company does which is mill students through more or less useless infield.

What im doing now is only doing 1-on-1s. Bootcamps are banned at Mehow, Inc forever.

Why are 1-on-1s so much better …

After you get solid training, all that matters is your performance in field.

Your performance consists of thousands of little things that you do

And basically if your instructor isn’t watching you like a freaking stalker
and improving your every move, subcom, nuance, intonation, facial expression
, or coming in to wing you at the rate time to deal with an obstacle/guy you don’t
know how to deal with etc you aren’t making progress and getting breakthroughs.

and ultimately your breakthroughs are all that matter to you.

And to get breakthroughs you need plenty of women to talk to which
a bootcamp robs you off pretty much instantly.

Whether its talking to a few girls for the first time, getting numbers, makeouts, pulling,
or sealing the deal … all those things are breakthroughs TO YOU.

And if your instructor isn’t obsessed with you its just not gonna happen.

So there you have it.

Fuck bootcamps. they honestly are only really beneficial for the companies and
not their students and were not gonna do em anymore.

We’re now the residential and 1:1 company.

-mehow
p.s. If you want to check out the schedule its here here. And fyi, these are my last 1:1′s that im coaching personally due to the TV show coming out in the fall.
p.p.s. The other reason I love 1:1s vs the other ‘crap’ is that way I get to connect with and know my students very closely. There is really nothing more rewarding then getting one guy, YOU, results and seeing it in your eyes. I bond with all the guys I teach, I’m a natural ‘connector’ and when I can’t connect because theres too many students I get pissed off, literally. so again … fuck bootcamps.
p.p.p.s. Oh ya on 1:1s I get to wing the living daylights out of you if you need it, which means I frequently setup D2s or SNLs or pulls while i’m coaching. Another reason I love 1:1s. All the guys out there that claim they get laid infield while coaching 10 man bootcamps are absolutely and completely FULL OF SHIT. Just try and get laid with a hot girl you just met while you have a posse of 10 dudes following you around. Its literally impossible. I’ve never seen it done unless your just straight ignoring your students.
p.p.p.p.s. Btw, ya for 1:1 we have to charge more money but to make that accessible we
now have all sorts of payment plans and thus far weve been able to accomodate quite a few
residential and private students in this manner. Basically, “your job is your credit”. Apply here.
p.p.p.p.p.s. If you’re already signed up for a bootcamp you just got upgraded to a 1:1 … for FREE. So for all you guys that signed up before this email … congrats … smooth move … and respect on supporting us even before we banned the bootcamp.

“Who’s down with O.P.P.?
Ya You Know … Me”"

OPP = Other People’s Pussy

I don’t think the 90s rap group “Naughty by Nature” was thinking what we were thinking when we wrote this blog post but were definitley “Down Wit’ O.P.P.”
(and its not what you think … this isn’t a ‘how to steal g/f’s method’)

Late last year we hit you up with the new improved social circle sarging method that DaveC came up with, really good for getting new girls in your social circle, even better when they know you’re into pick up or if you have a player vibe. Since then we’ve continued to experiment with a variety of different social circle situations.

You see when there are a tonne of social circle girls chilling and you’re sub-comms / game is pretty tight it’s like shooting fish in a barrel. Of course there are a lot of different permutations of the social circle structure but out of all these, one really caught my eye.

What if other guys brought a large amount of girls to us? What if we didn’t need a social circle at all? Of course it’s not as simple as that. How many guys are going to just start straight up bringing girls to you?

After some trial and error we hooked it up.

The magic holy grail of how to sleep with girls you never have to approach, cause they approach you … at your house.

The results where nothing short of phenomenal, but there are some subtle changes that become important like:

Giving Social Value

We often talk about giving value to girls but in this case your first requirement is to know guys who have a good tight social circle of women and help hook them up. In our case we looked no further then the local club promoter. His job is to consistently bring in high quality women to nightclubs but with that requirement there are a couple of real problems such as:

1) He can never find enough cool guys to chill with his girls

You see the good promoters get all their girls in one place then drag them all to the club, the pre-party gets the girls ready for a fun-filled night. Unfortunately girls like dudes (most of em anyway) and if there’s only 1 guy to 14 girls it’s gonna be a problem.

However, those of us trained socially are perfect, we know how to keep many girls satisfied at any one time without over-stepping the mark or creating any weird vibes that most creeper dudes would generate. (Note: Most guys start hitting on every girl straight away or just have bad calibration)

2) He doesn’t have a cool place to party.

A good promoter we know ended up getting some noise citations, so we let him use our place for his pre-parties, it got crazy fast, of course if you use your place for the pre-party it will also be used for the after party 90% of the time, and your bedroom is. Right. There.

Another great part of the pre-party is that no one trashes your place, people don’t drink too much because they don’t want to get wasted before the night really gets going.

Even better you don’t need the most amazing party place as long as it looks amazing, check out this video by our good friend LoveDrop from VA to see what we mean:

NOTE: Avoid promoters who want $$’s in exchange for hooking you up, there is pretty much always a way around this, paying is usually never worth it. It sets you up as another guy paying for the company of women. Also, stay away from ‘c***whore’ promoters. Not what you want. Avoid. Bad. Sarging girls that are obsessed with getting (starts with C) generally doesn’t result in any sex or positive relationships or positive anything for that matter.

The Importance Of The Pre-Party:

Trying to pull fresh sets that you havent really talked to before right prior to the after party can work but it often doesn’t because …

At the end of the nite *every dude* is trying to pull in a panicky ‘I’m desperate to pull so I get some pussy’ manner, the girls all know this … so even though you might have tight game and be totally un-needy – you get put in that ‘desparate’ category by the girls regadless and you have to work way harder to get things to happen.

Consequently, depending on the club, doing all the heavy sarging there without making an initial impression BEFORE the venue can set you back, costing you a good time later on that night.

To sarge other people’s social circles effectively you’ll want to follow the following 3 step formula:

1) have all of them pre-party at your house and make sure the ratio is good (at least 3 girls for every guy)
2) pick one girl (preferably one that you know, from your social circle that you invited specifically for this purpose) that you just have normal low value velocity comfort conversation with so it looks like your hitting on NOBODY.
3) Don’t really talk to all the other girls until they IOI you multipe times.

This puts in complete contrast to the guy who thinks he can mack on every girl that passes through his door.

Then after a while girls will start showing you interest on your disinterest, allowing you to transition straight to mid-game. Ill give a girl 15 mins of stuff like …

HB10justgottomyhouse: “Hi, I’m Sarah . Is this your place.”
me: “ya” (ignoring her pretty much)
HB10justgottomyhouse: “OK, soo …. what your name.”
me: “mehow” (still ignoring her pretty much)
HB10justgottomyhouse: “OK, nice to meet you.”
me: keeps taking to the girls from step 1)

So I’m not totally ignoring them … Im just giving them enough of an answer to their questions as to not be a total social violator but im IODing them with my body language the entire time and I go back to talking to my faux target.

After 30 mins or so of this you will have girls staring at you really hard, hair tossing, giving you proximity, finding excuses to sit next to you etc and then you can just pick the hottest one and go straight into normal mid game and viola… odds are youre gonna have an extra house guest that nite and maybe the start of something big and awesome.

Usually all this takes is game and a small apartment makeover and a few bottles of cheap liquor with mixers.

Choose The High End Venues, Get The Hotter Girls:

You want a promoter who not only goes to the higher venues but gets free bottles, tables and free entry and a cut of the bar due to the copious amounts of women he is bringing to the club. Good promoters can get anywhere between $200 – $500 a night for what they do on top of the perks mentioned above.

When they are promoting at the hotter clubs, they have hotter girls show up. We actually went to a club recently that was turning away any girl that wasn’t a 9 or above. Usually these places are attract the extremely attractive and the extremely wealthy. If you’re promoter is working these venues then it’s a good bet that he’s pulling in really hot women. So the best nights to host the pre-party are the when the best clubs are popping.

One last point, make sure you know which girls the promoter is hooking up with, you always want to avoid starting something with a promoters girl for obvious reasons.

That’s it guys, hopefully these mini-steps will help those of you who want to have some cool guy friends that can offer value to each other and sarge some women too.

Mehow & DaveC
p.s. And if you want a pic of what this looks like here is one from last week ….
(yes, our residential students get in on this every week … we have 2 spots left in 2012 … go here if you want to apply)

If you got questions then post em in comments.

UPDATE: top 3 best comments/suggestions/questions posted in the comments get you a free copy of INFIELD EXPOSED. (ends Friday at midnight and well annouce the winners Saturday at noon here – WINNing comments picked below in comments section. email support@mehow.tv with your info so we can get you your loot)

Also, as per today’s announcement … all of my incredibly beneficial instructional infrared ‘in the wild’ instructional products are going away permanently because they don’t match my new ‘tv image.’ The production needs everything to ‘match’ and given the world changing implications of the new show for both you and me – I have to agree. So … We have till Friday, March 30th to completely sell out the remaining boxed set physical copies of the community’s first infield video product ‘INFIELD EXPOSED’. After friday Infield Exposed will never be available again, ever, so get one of the last copies ever now.

Were doing a 25% off discount with code “FIRSTINFIELD” at this link …

www.infieldexposed.com

-m

—

*Major Spoilers Below*

In case you were wondering if a “pickup
TV show” was coming to a major channel
near you soon, this email is your official
answer.

Why is this relevant to you?

Because all the sudden what we do will
be mainstream again.

And because of this, and the way we’re
doing it…

(This is NOT “The Pickup Artist”)

Women will absolutely love it.

So not only will it be OK

**even cool**

to be in pickup but…

Women will actually appreciate it!

Plus the show will reveal and educate
you on romantic shortcuts that ‘nobody
thought was even possible’.

The end result of the show is nothing
short of completely obliterating how
‘the world views dating’ PERIOD.

(And this is not a simple
‘give away of material’ cause
there is just about zero “routines”
on the show)

This is the ‘official announcement’ to the
extent that we can reveal it.

I have an officially signed Pickup/Dating
reality show in development by a team
of Hollywood insiders.

Basically, their names are so big that
they won’t let me tell you who they are.
(Believe me, I’m a bit proud for being
the first ‘pickup team’ to pull this off
in 4 years … so I really wanted them
to let me name names, but it just can’t
happen due to the production’s secrecy)

What I can say is that the team behind this
has produced dozens of hit shows over the
last 20 years, many of which were mainstream
TV’s absolute biggest and longest running
dating and reality and mainstream entertainment
shows ever!

(But yes, even though I can’t tell you who
they are, they have officially blessed this
‘anonymous’ press alert)

This is the same development minds that
brought you a ton of very successful dating
and relationship shows (including that one from
a few years ago, you know … ,
had a tall guy in a big furry hat in it)

The show is represented by one of the big 3
agencies, however, I can’t
reveal which one yet as we want to save that
for the official announcement by the TV gods.

I can also say that We are estimating to be
on the air during the Fall season!

Listen, when I was given permission to clear
up the rumors and let you in on this incredible
news (Which has really been a humbling
experience, and I’m truly honored to have
this team so excited about the upcoming
show)…I jumped on the opportunity to
let you in on the ‘secret’.

I’m super excited for being enabled to have
my TV series vision come true, and I believe
you’ll love what we put together for your viewing
entertainment and enjoyment.

This show is going to literally *change the world*

Everybody’s perception of dating, matchmaking,
and game is going to get broken and reformed.

That sounds like it’s too good to be true… but,
I promise, its not. (And yes this release was
blessed by the ‘not in pickup’ both female and
male owned executive production team .. this
is the real deal and its coming to a screen near
you… really soon!)

We’re delivering something magically transformational
and positive, yet at the same time dramatic.

Bottom line, you’re gonna love it and its going to
help you and the women in your life.

For Your Complete Success In Love and Live!

-Mehow

Remember to post your comments about this great news and/or what you would do with your own tv show to win a $197 copy of ‘Infield Exposed’.

Big pieces of news today.

I have a major change to how I run phone game that I’m just plain giving away below along with a huge example thread right from my own phone.

I’ve been in field a ton recently screening for my TV show wifey (look for big public announcement on that really soon … the TV show … not the wifey) and sarging in LA is great.

But I’ve been having a problem.

Too many girls that are really, really into me then suddenly flake during phone game.

Now traditionally, I love being on the phone (as in actually talking on the phone) with girls … because I’m great at it. And if i can get a girl on the phone its been on in the past.

The problem is that in the last 6 months or so I’ve noticed a lot of general text and phone and meetup flaking whenever I’ve tried to call and usually girls don’t pickup.

I’m also noticing that women (and me) prefer texting. I’m a massive texter. I even use texting for biz all the time. It’s just a better, more efficient, less intrusive way of communicating and you can reply from just about anywhere including work.

This wasn’t the case say … 4 years ago. Back then phone game was still key.

So given all this new infield and observed data i changed up my phone game.

I’m completely eliminating talking on the phone unless …

- its been 3 or more days of texting and you need to talk to her to arrange logistics (like “im outside your place, come down”)
- or the set has been dead air for days so you might as well try and get her on the phone

But basically I just don’t do phone calls at all anymore.

NO VOICE PHONE CALLS AT ALL!

And the second I started doing that everything changed and I went out with 3 girls in 3 days. Ms Mehow.tv is in there somewhere but finding her is super fun.

My theory was then confirmed by all my coaches and wings that tried the same thing.

Here is what we think …

These days, particularly with younger girls under 30, calling at all is needy regardless of how much she likes you or how good your phone game is.

And when I removed that I had an instant flip in results from 50/50 of sets I was interested in seeing me to all of them.

So there you have it.

DON’T CALL

You don’t even have to practice phone game.

It’s just plain pretty much useless.
(even when I got girls on the phone, it seemed to needy, even if the call went well)

What does that mean for your text game?

It means that you invite girls out like sooo over text super causally like …

“Let’s go get some coffee, now”

Below is an entire thread from my phone for a girl I went out with that was never called.

The thing about this girl is she was a …

“Hotty With A Goat”

Yes, back home, not in LA, she has a pet goat.

I’m sorry but that was just so much fun I almost wrote a book about “goat technique” …. here is the entire thread … edited only to protect privacy.

Feel free to cut and paste some of it … or all of it … if your girl has a goat.

Goats are getting more popular these days.

Hotty With A Goat Text Thread:

Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:40:28 PM HBGoatGirl
Did you feed the goat today?

Received Jan 15, 2012 1:41:12 PM HBGoatGirl
Lol…no my mom already did sooo

Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:45:03 PM HBGoatGirl
Hi ….. So if you live in your moms basement …. Where does the goat live?

Received Jan 15, 2012 1:48:04 PM HBGoatGirl
Upstairs in a nice bedroom with a king size mattress and vanity… Also gets breakfast in bed.. Mom said until I’m house broke I have to stay in the basement : /@

Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:54:23 PM HBGoatGirl
Wow … your mom is a bitch … did you confront her about her relationship with the goat?

Received Jan 15, 2012 1:55:47 PM HBGoatGirl
A few times, but I don’t want to be beaten anymore

Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:03:39 PM HBGoatGirl
She was a world champ sumo wrestler so I understand

Received Jan 15, 2012 2:04:21 PM HBGoatGirl
Glad somebody does

Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:18:31 PM HBGoatGirl
Your freaking hilarious … there were a zillion people here last nite but I missed my special goat loving, trailer residing, nebraska redneck girl

Received Jan 15, 2012 2:24:29 PM HBGoatGirl
Oh god I’m glad I wasn’t there so you couldn’t introduce me as that!

Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:33:27 PM HBGoatGirl
“This is … and it’s better if you ignore her goat.”

Received Jan 15, 2012 2:35:35 PM HBGoatGirl
This is … And she obviously has “Farm girl problems”

Sent Jan 15, 2012 3:56:52 PM HBGoatGirl
What are you doing later?

Sent Jan 15, 2012 4:19:49 PM HBGoatGirl
I was thinking we could go roast your goat for dinner … And then you could have her old room

Received Jan 15, 2012 6:10:21 PM HBGoatGirl
Sorry I fell asleep… I’m recovering. There’s only one problem with roasting the goat and that’s my sumo wrestling momma

Sent Jan 15, 2012 6:53:19 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat must die

Received Jan 15, 2012 6:56:25 PM HBGoatGirl
Intense!

Sent Jan 15, 2012 7:28:02 PM HBGoatGirl
Actually one time I was in Omaha – I stayed at the casino

Received Jan 15, 2012 7:28:31 PM HBGoatGirl
Ameristar? Horseshoe?

Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:02:44 PM HBGoatGirl
Horseshoe I think – but your not even from Omaha, right? That’s too big for you … You grew up in some totally small and redneck place right?

Received Jan 15, 2012 8:04:19 PM HBGoatGirl
Totally BUT I do think/ know outside the box

Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:28:30 PM HBGoatGirl
Always think outside the goat

Received Jan 15, 2012 8:29:21 PM HBGoatGirl
I’m starting to regret telling you about the goat lol

Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:53:50 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat is the funniest thing ever … I heart the goat

Received Jan 15, 2012 8:59:26 PM HBGoatGirl
Too bad it’s a true story : (

Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:09:10 PM HBGoatGirl
I’m walking over to saddle ranch in a bit … You can bring the goat … They cool with it there

Received Jan 15, 2012 9:15:32 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat would get jealous if I rode the bull : /

Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:28:22 PM HBGoatGirl
You can’t let the goat run you … You run the goat

Received Jan 15, 2012 9:30:22 PM HBGoatGirl
Yes my dearest psychologist

Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:44:51 PM HBGoatGirl
Ugh … No

Received Jan 15, 2012 9:46:15 PM HBGoatGirl
Lol JK! Too soon?

Sent Jan 15, 2012 10:09:58 PM HBGoatGirl
I mean everybody sleeps with their shrink but I hate being one

Received Jan 15, 2012 10:11:14 PM HBGoatGirl
I hear ya

Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:04:00 PM HBGoatGirl
I met your twin last nite

Received Jan 16, 2012 12:04:51 PM HBGoatGirl
Oh man…I’m scared

Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:23:54 PM HBGoatGirl
You guys looked identical from behind so we started talking

Received Jan 16, 2012 12:30:25 PM HBGoatGirl
Lol

Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:44:58 PM HBGoatGirl
Your gonna have to get an ass tattoo so I can tell you apart

Received Jan 16, 2012 12:46:05 PM HBGoatGirl
How about a tramp stamp?

Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:48:31 PM HBGoatGirl
You are so redneck its hilarious … with you I can do all the redneck things I want to do in LA but can’t find the people for

Received Jan 16, 2012 12:50:47 PM HBGoatGirl
Haha! AND I can’t judge you bc you know..I’m white trash n stuff

Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:56:54 PM HBGoatGirl
Your probably really good at shooting cans in your back yard

Received Jan 16, 2012 1:00:28 PM HBGoatGirl
Fo SHO and shooting prairie dogs

Sent Jan 16, 2012 1:13:46 PM HBGoatGirl
I usually go shooting once a week here at the range so we have that in common

Received Jan 16, 2012 1:22:59 PM HBGoatGirl
We can add that to the list

Sent Jan 16, 2012 1:34:47 PM HBGoatGirl
When you free to hang?

Received Jan 16, 2012 1:49:15 PM HBGoatGirl
Mmmmm idk it’s one of those things where u just gotta say hey what’s up

Sent Jan 16, 2012 2:32:18 PM HBGoatGirl
I know … I just did … Do country girls not speak the Engrish

Received Jan 16, 2012 2:48:04 PM HBGoatGirl
Hey now… I’m free

Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:13:42 PM HBGoatGirl
Cool – let’s grab some coffee – where you at ?

Received Jan 16, 2012 3:16:06 PM HBGoatGirl
Damn now I gotta look like an legit human being.. Where u wanna go

Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:17:12 PM HBGoatGirl
There this amazing coffee joint down the street – is so amazing – but you can dress down

Received Jan 16, 2012 3:17:50 PM HBGoatGirl
Kk…what’s the addy or the name

Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:23:42 PM HBGoatGirl
It’s in Bev hills i just drive there – come to queens … and then I’ll make you drive The 3 mins from here … you probably have a truck, right?

Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:24:08 PM HBGoatGirl
First house on left on queens – right next to andaz on sunset

Received Jan 16, 2012 3:25:54 PM HBGoatGirl
Funny thing about that is I came to LA with no truck just 2 bags & a plane ticket smart ass

Received Jan 16, 2012 3:26:33 PM HBGoatGirl
But yes I’m coming to queens give me a sec

Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:28:46 PM HBGoatGirl
4 pm
… I need to find my country hat

Received Jan 16, 2012 3:29:42 PM HBGoatGirl
AlrightyO

Received Jan 16, 2012 4:08:38 PM HBGoatGirl
Almost there

Sent Jan 16, 2012 4:11:26 PM HBGoatGirl
Cool

-mehow
p.s. if you enjoyed that but don’t know how i come up with all the improv .. I have a super precise method for that that anybody can do … it’s here www.10secondattraction.com.
p.p.s. this is just a random pic of social circle from the house. just a cute pic. this isn’t “goat girl” btw this is a diff one.

So it’s 2012 and I’m excited, I got a lot of cool stuff planned personally this year, and I know we got a lot more innovations coming up on the pick up front so stay tuned for those as the year progresses.

Now let’s get to you, how can you make this year the best one yet in terms of dating and relationships. You know I wanted to hit you guys with something big this year, something that you can sink your teeth into and use as a template to start you getting better.

Here it is, I’ve made this blog post about the best posts we’ve ever put on this blog. This blog has been going on for 7 years now and there are many, many amazing articles on here, I’d go so far as to say there is even a basic framework for getting yourself success and doing so very quickly, the key is finding the information.

I took care of that one for you, so really, I guess the only question is how much success do you want this year?

Cos reading this stuff without taking any action is going to be a waste, so rather then read these all you may wanna bookmark this blog right here, right now… Go ahead… See that button up there ^ you got it.

Nice.

Now work through these one at a time as necessary.

First up there’s having a plan and getting your mindset right. This are easy to do and you can do them from the comfort of your PC.

Then there’s getting a stack put together and maybe a little something for Approach Anxiety (scroll down to point 2). It’s also crucial you realise no one is going to do this for you, you gotta get out there and work on this for you and be your own guru.

Once your infield it’s important that you make your own luck and you use the feedbacksystems available to you to maximise your learning and success, with this I would honestly get you guys to write and infield blog, it doesn’t need to be public but writing it down the moment you get down will help.

Some Time Should Have Passed…

Ok, so by now you should have some set days to go out and sarge, be getting feedback from women and be getting the basics of attraction stacking down, so far so good. I know you wouldn’t be reading this without doing that…

So, the first thing you’re going to want to understand for mid-game is qualification, having a basic identity grounding sequence and some slight sexualisation routines (for the last part I recommend strawberry fields). We never covered this on the blog as it was all in our original GTG manual along with how to handle contingencies and interrupts as we knew how to then.

Luckily a lot of this information is both freely available to be found using google to find out how to qualify / find specific routines like strawberry fields and secondly this isn’t how we run mid-game these days, although it is useful for you to know and be able to fall back on.

No, instead we use 10-Second Sexual Attraction and that requires a knowledge of value velocity the core principle by which our whole mid-game centres around… Note, this is a bit complex in terms of theory.

You’ll also want to know how to get sexual which involves the transition we made from old school escalation to nu-school which, of course, has it’s own rules.

At this point you’ll want a text game plan, Date 2/3 plan and an end game plan

Then of course there’s keeping her or just dating within your social circle.

These articles should give you a basis to get some momentum at the start of this year and although there are many other great articles on the blog, these are what you’ll need to start your journey and get success in 2012.

-DaveC

P.S. If you want to get the latest and most effective techniques from us before they get released publicly then check out our bootcamp page here we still have financing available for a short time.

P.P.S As an extra bonus here’s a quick video I did shortly after getting back to the UK which talks about which guys were most successful at The Residential and why. This years residential program is going to be insane, it’s one guy getting trained by Mehow and myself for 7 days straight. I’m excited, changing a guys reality, one at a time. We have exactly 2 spots left btw, so if you’re interested head here

What up!!! DaveC and Mehow here again and we wanted to give you one simple thing to reign in 2012; a game plan.

Simple enough, no? What the key things you want to get doing to make your new year celebrations end with a bang, trust me, there is nothing more fun then waking up in a new year with a hot girl laying right beside you. Trust me, when it happens you KNOW it’s going to be a good year.

So, foreplay aside, how do we get from the one situation (your hand) to the other (hot girl).

I’d like to start off by reminding you that right now there are a lot of women without a man in their life, they’ve just spent a lot of family time alone, a contradiction in terms but emotionally true for them no doubt. They are going to be more open then usual to meeting.

Don’t Drink (too much)

Look, I know it’s New Years and all but if you go too fast and take on too much then it’s gonna be insanely difficult to pull. There is one basic plus to the New Years celebration though, everyone is celebrating so most girls are gonna find it hard to see a lack of calibration from a few drinks.

The basic rule for this (as someone who likes the occasional drunk sarging night for fun) is that you need to find a girl of equal or greater drunkeness in order to seem calibrated. That won’t be hard to do but the more you drink the less likely there are to be girls that are able to even make the decision to go home with you and at a certain point her friends make all her decisions for her, which means no NY sex for you.

Alternatively, for those of you that drink too much I have two words for you: Whisky Dick

Screen for logistics

This is huge, I mean you gotta get on this properly right from the start, every set you gotta know what her logistics are.

How many people is she with?
Does she have a boyfriend?
Is she staying with a friend or a New Years DD?

You need to know this quick as there is nothing worse then spending 2 to 3 hours with a girl and then finding your logistics suck, worse still she’s flying outta town the next day. That’s an extreme example but hell we playing to win this year. Aight?

So, the other key to logistics, is finding out how down she is to get down. The key her is verbal sexual escalation, specifically for you guys once the girls into you on a base level throw out some proximity kino (link) and say: “Clearly your last boyfriend didn’t spank you hard enough.”

You’re not necessarily looking for her to jump you then and there but you want to start the escalation quickly and see if she’s the kind of girl that is looking to hook up that night. The goal isn’t perfect every set loves you game here, the goal is dirty, in her face, fuck or walk style.

Ironically if you have a good level of game you can usually find this girl within 3 sets.

Table steal

If you are in a venue with a table then steal it. Your brothers out there may not know this awesome stuff you know, they may have unwittingly decided to spring for a table with lots of booze just so they have a means to talk to the many, many beautiful woman around.

And you’re job is to use that lack of game to further your own game. This changes based in what city you are in but the principles are all the same and I remember running around Copenhagen a few years back doing this myself with 2 wings and the attention we got was epic.

Walk up to a couple of dudes with no women and a nice table, tell them you have 4 or 5 girls with you and they want to sit down, is it cool if they come chill at the dudes table, mention that at least a few of the girls are hot. Usually they agree. Thank them, get their names and introduce yourself before rolling off.

Note: Sometimes you’ll get gay guys with tables… Either you’re in the wrong club or they’ll proposition you to come join them anyway. This is cool, gay guys are excellent wings just watch out for them trying to Gay-me you. ‘Nuff said.

Open a group of women, ideally a logistically difficult set to pull, it could be your first set. Win the whole group over and then tell them you’re partying with some friends at a table (you remembered the guys names right?) then drag em over to the guys.

At this point you introduce the guys and go open the set you actually want to pull, a nice 2 or 3 set perhaps, same MO but now you’re socially proofed and pulling your ideal set to the table. FYI, the table also acts as a good pivot place for the rest of the night, no matter what happens you can always return there and chill.

Part of this is just straight getting your venue right, a venue with rich chodes and way more women then men will mean that you’re going to crush it in field and have a fun free night. Just remember, you are bringing value to everyone when you do this, it’s not about wrecking someone elses night.

The 100% Consistent Opener

Usually I’d never say that any opener is 100% consistent and yet this one has yet to let me down in the nearly 4 years I’ve been using it… Now I’ve only used it one day of the year each time but so far 3 days in a row with no bad reactions and it hooks the set most of the time too.

The only condition is you use it after midnight – New Years Day… The opener goes something like this:

“Happy New Years!”

Deceptively simple isn’t it, but you can run around and open every set with this with a super happy sub-comm and life will be good to you, as will the women.

Well that about wraps it up for this one but come back and check out the blog on New Years day (if you aren’t too worse for wear) as Mehow and myself will be giving you a blog on how to set yourself up for maximum success in 2012.

Till then Happy New Year to you all,
-D and Mehow

The Residential is over and it went out with a bang. When we set out to do this we knew that the program we were running, we knew that it was intense both on a personal level and professionally. We’re giving you one last big piece of value from this effort below. We’re standing on our last legs, so to speak and are very much looking forward to a week of NOT sarging. Before we get to the value here is where we were at mentally a few nights ago …

What’s really cool though is how remarkably people adapt to their circumstances and how, no matter how much we like to believe we are special, there is nothing special about gaining this skillset, it’s the combination of hard work, dedication and time.

Over the course of the residential we’ve kept you updated on all the latest techniques that we’ve developed or observed in our time in the field. If you’ve been studying our stuff for any amount of time you have the tools you need to start getting results and I don’t want to repeat what we’ve already shared with you on this blog.

Instead I want to tell you about our guys and what they have been able to accomplish through just a bit or training a dedication. It seems that most people these days want to pull down the success of others, an impulse that comes from a place of insecurity typically. Even though the accomplishments of others in no way diminish your own achievements in life.

There are many, many types of students, we see them all but let me take you through 3 guys experiences, these guys make up, between them, a good percentage of the guys we typically see.

Which type are you?
(and you can be multiple types)

Type 1: IT’S ACTUALLY EASY BUT I DITCH THE SET

Firstly there are guys like Tom And Jez (Names changed to protect the guilty), they work extremely hard, they give each and every set there all and very quickly with feedback they start to generate results, pulls and girls that want to be with them. Then at that last possible minute when they have that girl interested they drop the ball, we’ve seen guys like this literally talk there way out of sex, in some occasions they’ve done it multiple times.

These types of guys usualy feel a great deal of social anxiety even after a girl is into them and their internal fear makes it impossible for them to understand that the girl is into them. At the same time they are usually very logical and understand that they are making progress so when they make progress such as a pull or a 30 minutes set or a hand job – ejecting out of the set satisfies both those criteria: a) I made progress b) Im out of the set so i no longer feel anxiety. And they usually rationalize all this with “she wasn’t hot enough” … that of course is bullshit because just about any girl HB6+ is hotter then your right hand.

Ultimately escalating MORE is really scary for this type of man.

The solution is to simply recognize this is how your brain is working and its out to defeat you. But you aren’t your thoughts. You are just the observer of your thoughts.

The solution for these type of guys is to always, no matter what your own internal state is, push the set because once you’re getting laid and you get to the end game the massive reward of closing generally completely erases this negative state on a more or less permanent basis.

Type 2: I’M HERE AS A LAST RESORT, BUT THIS STUFF DOESN’T REALLY WORK (even though it’s actually easy)

Then there are the guys like Nate and Steve… These guys make you wonder why they bothered to turn up, they’ve given up in a completely different way. They assume that on some level they are the victim of some kind of societal conspiracy, they are broken and need to be fixed. As though your worth is set in stone the moment you are your born and you just have to roll with it.

So if you have a deep seeded belief that you somehow, can’t be fixed, fortunately for you the solution is really simple.

All you have to do is focus on getting results enough such that when you walk up to girls they consistently like you for more then a few minutes.

These types of guys usually have massive results right off the bat b/c when you use really solid consistent infield techniques like ours – you get consistent results in a matter of days.

And they second their brain realizes that their belief that its just not possible is totally and completely not in line with the facts – BAM .. huge breakthrough. Then this type of student usually goes on a sarging rampage and does really well.

Type 3: IT’S ACTUALLY DIFFICULT, the “DISQUALIFED”

Then there are the students that have been dealt a different hand.

They are “disqualified” in typically 2 or more ways – meaning they have traits that aren’t generally attractive to women. Speech impediments, lack of social understanding to a medical level (Asperger’s), short, fat, bald, older ord not her ideal ethnic type, poor etc.

The past social experiences of these types of men are typically a wall of negative and frequently they are afraid to escalate (type 1) and also believe they can’t be fixed(type 2).

The secret to fixing these types of men quickly is to figure out what their angle is. Every type of guy has advantages although almost always they don’t realize them. With proper game and some “shortcuts” these guys can get results very quickly as well.

Here is the one huge secret to inner game for these types of men. Even if at best, you only hook half you’re sets – at the end of the night you can only pull 1 set. Even if at best you only sleep with 25% of the women you date … at the end of a month, the amount of girlfriends you can maintain given time constraints is still limited to a few.

So bottom line, after a few months of coaching the mega disqualifed guy is getting laid just as much as the dude for whom every set is easy. And with some additional social circle technolgoy the quality of the women is the same.

So the biggest thing to realize for these guys – is that no matter their individual situaiton you can be in a place where you’re life is just as epic as a dude whos 22, rich, good looking, tons of natural game, with a perfect hairline, and huge biceps.

“That last guy btw is me” – Mehow

We learn from our mistakes, we plow when a set isn’t perfect and we get the results with dedication.

Even better is knowing that when you get this sorted not only are you getting as many results as an “optimal” gamer – but your getting better results then most guys that should be getting mad ass cause they have zero dis-qualifiers.

I constantly blow out younger, richer, better looking men out of their own sets … just with game.

So what are the practical steps you should take in order to surge forward and get better results:

1) Open consistently, push every set to it’s limit and don’t take anything personally
2) Be positive, focus on the things you’re learning, how well you did certain things and how awesome some of the women you meet are
3) Take responsibility for your development both by having set days you go out and in terms of what you are working on
4) Work on 2 – 3 things at a time and have a game plan for getting them sorted, when things have been going stale for too long then it’s time to change things up
5) Never assume you know everything, you don’t. Every year we find more and more practical techniques that massively ramp up our game.
6) Have fun, picking up women is meant to be fun.
7) And if you recognize yourself as one of the 3 types above then use the hints we gave you.

-Mehow and DaveC
p.s. and mad props to our secret residential student “B” who came to us a “V” and at the residential got to 2nd base – then went home and got his first BJ – and my guess is won’t be a V for much longer. When we take a guy, who has a really hard time and we teach him how to go from being a 30somethin virgin to a dude that gets results it makes every single day of our 90 day odyssey worth it.
p.p.s. The next gen version of the residential “ONEder System LIVE” has one spot left in it. We just doing one guy, for one week, with 2 coaches per month for 6 months on this. We’re never doing another 8 man/month residential. When you do it right, with the individual attention, its epic for the students but it definitely nearly killed us. Was worth to do it once though. Here is the oneder live link.
p.p.p.s. And for all of you guys who have been asking what our secret pheromone formula just wait a few days. I’m not saying that pheromones do or don’t work – all I’m saying is that while we were bathing the students in them and wearing them ourselves every night – we pulled 80% of the time. It was sort of freaky – so I can’t discount the pheromone factor – which is why in a few days I’m going to let you in on my secret. Bottom line, the scientific community with a bunch of studies insists that pheromones work … and we figured out a way … to translate the science to the field.

DaveC here. Recently I’ve been getting a lot of sex from social circle girls… A lot.

It’s gotten to the point where Mehow is having to tell me to put that social circle girl down and get back into the field to do some good old fashioned cold approach so I don’t get rusty.

Here’s the thing though, experimentation breeds creativity and with some thorough testing I’m now happy to bring you a new social circle model specifically tailored to dealing with the big problem with social circle game: The girls that are expecting you to hit on them.

Maybe you’re only doing social circle, maybe you have a reputation as a player… Maybe she is coming to the house pre-warned that you are a PUA “POOAAAAAAAH!” dude.

Whatever the case this is the ‘method’ that will enable you to overcome her distrust and win her over. I’ve field tested this pretty consistently and after passing it onto Mehow just a week ago he’s already used it to pull 2 girls to his bedroom, one who knew what he did for a living and a second who came to the house to do a model shoot for a good friend (fyi, models showing up to shoots are always wary due to all the shady photographers trying to screw them).

Before I continue I just wanna take a second to clarify some things about social circle game in general and make it clear where we are coming from.

Firstly social circle game still requires a decent level of game in and of itself, as such we’d still always recommend that guys start with night game to get them up to speed and start the game building process.

(Mehow EDIT: I would say that trying to do social circle when you have no cold approach is just going to result in fail – social circle is only easy in that there is no approach anxiety – otherwise its different game, not easier)

Secondly, social circles are built on mutual value, i.e. you are constantly inviting the girls to something cool and vice versa. As time progresses your regular social circle girls will continue to bring new and different girls into the group for you.

Thirdly, you must never sleep with those girls that are the ‘seed’ girls, i.e. they bring new girls to your entourage overtime and thus sleeping with them will make them both i) want to be your girlfriend and ii) have them stop the flow of new girls.

Finally, social circle game should be ran discretely, which means keep what you and certain girls get up to quiet and don’t make big overt moves in front of all her friends and the rest of your social circle.

Meet HB9skinny_bitch

So just the other day a stunning girl walked in the house, easily a 9 both in body and personality. I initially ignored her and remained distant but to everyone else I was the cool, normal center of the party.

I effortlessly gave value to everyone around me, except Ashley. When it came time to go clubbing with the entourage I started talking to Ashley. I was completely genuine building comfort and being normal. When I saw that the conversation was getting too normal for a club I ran banter on everyone around me; the nearest person. Then back to comfort with her.

She was all over me. Then I found out it was Mehow’s girl and he continued doing the same thing till she was back in his room that night.

So what did I actually do?

Ok, so to start with the classic pick up technique applies, you break rapport disproportionally. You can’t go to far with this as then you cross over into social violation territory but you remain distant, this is not normal social circle behaviour for a guy and she will wonder why you aren’t all up on her, especially if she is attractive.

The other key thing is that you are constantly delivering emotional value and highly stimulating yet self amusing content to the rest of the social circle as normal. If there is one girl that you usually go over the top with / can over game for fun because she knows that’s what you are like.

This demonstrates several attractive characteristics such as being the life of the party, that you are a fun and cool guy… It further creates that question “Why isn’t he like this with me?”

Then later, ideally at a party event you can simply start talking to her, I like to start with: “Hey, I’m Dave, I haven’t really talked to you, I’m at the asshole recovery meetings… I’m on step 1.” She laughs and you get super genuine with her, you aren’t treating her how she expects you to, with everyone else you’re joking and fun but with her you seem to be real.

When buying temperature goes down you run banter (and 10SSA) on the other girls in your social circle, you can also mess with your guy friends too to create the same value.

Now you’ve created a real connection the interaction will start to move back to a normal pick up. Better yet we’ve had girls in our social circle say things like: “I’m so glad you were just chill and normal with .”

This shift in their perception has them bringing more girls over and we are free to do this as many times as we want.

So to summarise, this isn’t the normal social circle method, this is the method when you start hitting on a social circle girl and encounter disinterest and challenges you swap into this method and take it from there.

-D

(Mehow summary:

The Two “phases” to the “New Social CircleTM” Method:
1. ignore the target and run BT game on everybody else (“I’m Rick James, Bitch”) – 15-30 mins
2. be super nice to the target (almost “chode-like”) while you Rick James everybody else.

And this only works when you have a ton of logistical control and everybody can easily hear you – like at your house or if you have good club logistics.)

P.S. It’s still super important to run regular cold approach and build the skillset because that’ll give you the reference points to become consistent.

Plus cold approach pick up is fun, see Exhibit A:

Crazy bitches wear me out.

When your consistent in field you just run into every situation imaginable and your breadth of experience becomes a vast land of good, bad, crazy, pretty, and fun reference points that prepare you to handle everything.

I’m going to give away the biggest secret I have to consistency at the end of this blog but first let me relate to you some fresh tales from the field that should tie all this together.

If you get in field you know that hotness in girls can cause some pretty severe personality defects.

The biggest of which is “hotness induced attention deficit disorder(ADD)”.

All hot girls have this to some extent but there was one here last night that had it to an extent so extreme it was just messed up.

So she’s pretty normal in the club but when she gets back to the house … she goes and climbs into one of my garage storage units and won’t come out for 5 mins. Then we spend another 5 mins hanging out in her car parked car outside sticking our feet through the sunroof. Then she climbs out out through the passenger window and then down through the sunroof into the back seat. my head + her big plastic boobs are a tight fit in the sunroof and my glasses almost break. Then she gets on the hood of a friends car and rides it (vehicle in motion) while our friend is trying to park. Then she tried to do a cartwheel on the concrete driveway and I catch her before she breaks her neck. Inside the house she crawls around on the floor and tries to slide down the stairs using the laundry hamper as a sled. That ends in near disaster and I catch her again before she faceplants into the wall at the bottom of the stairs. Then she fell in love with my dog and wouldn’t leave my bedroom until I kicked her out. Then she tried to steal the dog downstairs a few times where I made her sleep on the couch.

The she looks at me and concludes, “I need a babysitter when I party.” … I said “You need a babysitter all the time.”

See, when a super hot girl behaves like this everybody things it’s amusing and all the dudes think it’s hot. Even though this behavior is totally destructive and is actually really annoying … very few people have the kahunis to call the girl out on it. Society rewards her for the bad behavior so it continues. It’s pretty much universally ok for hot girls to behave this way so many just become truly horrible people that have absolutely zero sense of anything outside of their own state. They are completely unaware of how anybody else feels.

This particular girl left a pair of really nice heels in my garage which I’m going to auction off to charity as “insanity tax.”

Wait, you want one of these batty nuts hotties?

The only way to sleep with them is to get super dominant (see previous blog posts), super physical, fuck them and then never see them again, because they will drive you batty fucking nuts. And don’t try to “fix em” … that never works. If you got the skillset to get a girl this impossible to get then you can just go get a sane one tonight and be done with it.

Hotness induced ADD can also be caused by a girls high perceived sense of self worth due to being the only hot girl in the club or an actual celeb status (even C-list suffer from this).

Which brings me to my 2nd hilarious tale from the field.

Me, DaveC and this weeks students (one of whom looks just like a Justin Beiber and is Canadian to (a)boot) roll out to the new “hot” club in LA. These guys have been killing it and pulled already their first night out.

That night me and DaveC pulled one set to the house while the students got pulled by their set to an entirely different city … then 2 nights later their set invites them out to a pajama party and they sarge the whole place wearing onesie pajamas. (Oh yea … and the girls bought them a bottle)

This was shaping up to be a fun week … anyway … back to the “new hot club.”

I spot an older blonde in the corner of the patio talking to a hot young brunette. Its a 2 set. First students goes in and gets blown out in 2 mins … I’m like WTF .. those girls aren’t hot enough to be doing that … so we send in Beiber … Beiber hangs like a champ for a minute then the blonde starts to drift off. So he does the ring routine …

Beiber: “Do you know what this is?”
her: “Um… Ring?”
Beibe” “No … shiny object .. works every time”

But he still loses the set after another min. She just wasn’t having it.

I’m scratching my head ….

Turns out she was Daryl Hannah who I totally didn’t recognize b/c shes now 51. Back in the 80′s when I was 12 I was in love with her though. She was in my favorite movie of all time “Blade Runner.” She played the super hot, violent, acrobatic blonde replicant – “Pris.” Since then she’s become an environmental activist and seems to be doing well at that.

In any case, not hot girls get hotness induced ADD just because of their own perceived social value.

This happened to just be a hilarious example of said phenomenon.

Incidentally the way you get social value induced ADD girls is to match her social value with jealously and tons of social proof. Over the top dominance on this 2nd variety of ADD usually won’t work except as a short term tactical BT spike. i.e. you gotta calibrate differently to the turbo hotties vs the super high social value hotties that think they are Kim Kardashian.

Wait, you want this stuff to happen to you all the time?

Well, something that DaveC has been consistently teaching on live programs, events and the residential is that you need to get consistent so you can build “reference points” so you can became an all-knowing infield machine.

“Reference Points” (RPs) are simply hard wired automated responses for infield phenomena that you can use at will. They are build up by infield time spend correctly handling various situations.

The more RPs you have the more consistent you get so results start to snowball.

RP’s are simply the catch-all term for ‘everything you have to learn in field’ like, attraction, mid-game, pulling, closing, C+I handling etc. The term “Reference Points” simply means that you need to build enough experiences in each of those categories to get truly unconsciously competent.

But for most guys the biggest problem is just consistency.

The key to consistency is to just solve your attraction problem so you get attraction 90% of the time. When you get attraction all the time you are literally building reference points all the time from the minute you get in field for day game or night game.

We do that with “soundbite stacking.” – the totally natural way of automating the first 2 mins of every interaction.

It works by breaking up everything you say into few second soundbites like so …

you: “You guys are the girls my mother warned me about.”
set:
you: “You have a good girl face but bad girl mannerisms.” (Credit: Tyler Durden)
set:
you: “Don’t make me come down there and pick you up by your puppyscruf.”
set: “whats puppy scruf?”
you: “It’s where the lioness picks up the cubs”
set:

The thing is that in the first 2 mins of every interaction their responses are pretty much predictable so you have all the benefits of an automated system w/o sounding like you’re a robot.

Consistency, viola.

So get any notion of “I’m just going to walk up to these girls and ‘be awesome’ and ‘be natural’” out of your head because that’s only gonna works 20% of the time and then you’re gonna lose momentum, feel bad, and stop being consistent and then suck in field for ever.

Stop fighting reality. Accept the soundbite stack.

Wait, you want more info on this? You want tons of consistency in field? You want to sarge insane turbo hotties, normal turbo hotties, and Daryl Hannah also? You want girls to buy you bottles and invite you to pajama parties also?

Cool.

Stay tuned cause I’m gonna be giving you access to this technology in the next few days.

-m

P.S. Here is a pull from the other night for you guys. We really need to get the stereo working in “the van”,

Frequently we have students at The Residential who go out and they’re relying on luck. They are relying on finding that one girl that is so into them that they don’t need game, they just need to not mess up.

If there is one thing I’ve learned time and time again it’s that in this world, more often then not, you make you own luck.

What does this mean in practical terms? It means that when the going gets tough, the tough step up.

It means that when you don’t get your ‘ideal response’ you don’t move on, you don’t consign yourself to the idea that it wasn’t meant to be, you dominate.

The best guys in field are also the guys that don’t take the women they are talking to or themselves to seriously. That doesn’t mean that you goo overboard and act crazy but it does mean that you continue to self amuse and to move things forward.

In every interaction it’s normal for the set to give you some resistance, it’s normal for her to make sure she doesn’t feel like she is ‘too easy’. It’s also normal for her because it would be weird for someone to like every little thing about you.

First you need to stop caring what other people think and live for you, for those of you that are having trouble with that then watch the below short clip:

Playing the game on a technical level seems to be something that isn’t particularly cool right now yet for those guys that aren’t seeing the results they want, that aren’t taking things further or pushing themselves on a technical level I suggest you implement the below and start transferring disinterest into something useful.

Let me give you an example. Recently Mehow was coaching a student and he asked me to go pick up one of the hottest girls in the venue and drag her over to him as a personal favour. Now this girl wasn’t my type of girl but she had a killer body so I could see where he was coming from and I swiftly went over.

She gave me heavy eye contact on the approach, cigarette dangling from her mouth, I maintained the eye contact and pulled out a lighter. As I lit her cigarette I maintained the eye contact, my hands were steady and my initial vibe was rock solid.

I proceeded to roll into my attraction material but no matter what I said she gave me a condescending answer and finally after my final improv’d attraction piece she back turned me. This is where the story ends for most guys. Most of you will stand there awkwardly for 5 seconds before walking away unsure of what happened.

Except being in field a ton told me that this was one of those HB9 girls with an “i get whatever i want, however i act” attitude and the backturn wasn’t a real IOD … it was part of her game and what she was just testing to see if I would put the smack down.

I stepped to her side, grabbed her and pulled her round to face me Proximity Kino style.

me: “Are we going to have a problem.”
HB9: smiles
me: “Look, don’t hate me just because I’m beautiful.”
HB9: smiles more
me: “Is this because I’m black” (Note: I’m a pasty white English guy)
HB9: nearly falls over with laughter
me: “You are such a racist.”
HB9: “I like you, you’re funny.”

Sometimes girls give you extreme shit tests, sometimes girls give you token resistance but you never lose from taking things a step further and increasing your calibration points. Bottom line, as long as your being non-reactive to the IOD, self amusing, and have high value velocity you can escalate to handle the IOD. Traditionally you want to handle and IOD with an IOD (direct teasing of her, mirroring her negative body language) but you can also be self-amusing to get the same effect. Self-amusment is fun at her expense, hence that’s the IOD from you to her.

Now let’s look at a bigger problem. Cock-blocks. You see most of us can get that one girl down initially and it’s the friends that prove a problem, especially if you’re sarging the ‘Hottie & Nottie’ set. (Note: A set where one girl is extremely physically attractive where as her friend is seemingly bred under a bridge and only emerges to beat in the skulls / devour the souls of men who approach said attractive friend.)

Back in the day we only had solo-winging & 10-Second Sexual Attraction, the idea being you could handle the cock block by either sarging the target in front of her friend in a highly emotionally stimulating way which meant that the obstacle(s) would literally watch you game the target and be down with it or you’d have highly self amusing soundbites to handle pull aways. Both of those are still encouraged.

Nowadays though when a girl is giving you shit you just get in the targets face, just like I did in the above example and a bubble forms around you and her causing her to forget about the friend objection. If the friend tries the “pull away” you can … use a proximity kino version of solo-winging with:

“Yea, I shouldn’t get that close, I just got the restraining order against her filed”

Both girls will laugh and then you just roll straight back up to your target and get all in her face again.

If the obstacle still pulls away your target that’s where the in-club text game Mehow chronicled in the last blog takes effect and you start covertly text sarging her with the goal to drag her out the club and back to your house at the end of the night (with consent).

So remember your three rules and never loosing the “KungFooGrip” on your woman and creating your own luck are as follows:

Step 1: Use 10-Second Sexual Attraction and Solo Winging to hold your girls attention
Step 2: Proximity Kino whenever you can to form “the bubble” and then use it when obstacles try to steal your girl
Step 3: If pull away happens continue the sarge by texting her in venue whilst running some other sets for fun and jealousy.

Give it a go and don’t let your set slip away for no reason, take control and make your own luck. Have fun out there guys.

-DaveC

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P.P.P.S.

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