Guys,
What up!!! DaveC and Mehow here again and we wanted to give you one simple thing to reign in 2012; a game plan.
Simple enough, no? What the key things you want to get doing to make your new year celebrations end with a bang, trust me, there is nothing more fun then waking up in a new year with a hot girl laying right beside you. Trust me, when it happens you KNOW it’s going to be a good year.
So, foreplay aside, how do we get from the one situation (your hand) to the other (hot girl).
I’d like to start off by reminding you that right now there are a lot of women without a man in their life, they’ve just spent a lot of family time alone, a contradiction in terms but emotionally true for them no doubt. They are going to be more open then usual to meeting.
Don’t Drink (too much)
Look, I know it’s New Years and all but if you go too fast and take on too much then it’s gonna be insanely difficult to pull. There is one basic plus to the New Years celebration though, everyone is celebrating so most girls are gonna find it hard to see a lack of calibration from a few drinks.
The basic rule for this (as someone who likes the occasional drunk sarging night for fun) is that you need to find a girl of equal or greater drunkeness in order to seem calibrated. That won’t be hard to do but the more you drink the less likely there are to be girls that are able to even make the decision to go home with you and at a certain point her friends make all her decisions for her, which means no NY sex for you.
Alternatively, for those of you that drink too much I have two words for you: Whisky Dick
Screen for logistics
This is huge, I mean you gotta get on this properly right from the start, every set you gotta know what her logistics are.
How many people is she with?
Does she have a boyfriend?
Is she staying with a friend or a New Years DD?
You need to know this quick as there is nothing worse then spending 2 to 3 hours with a girl and then finding your logistics suck, worse still she’s flying outta town the next day. That’s an extreme example but hell we playing to win this year. Aight?
So, the other key to logistics, is finding out how down she is to get down. The key her is verbal sexual escalation, specifically for you guys once the girls into you on a base level throw out some proximity kino (link) and say: “Clearly your last boyfriend didn’t spank you hard enough.”
You’re not necessarily looking for her to jump you then and there but you want to start the escalation quickly and see if she’s the kind of girl that is looking to hook up that night. The goal isn’t perfect every set loves you game here, the goal is dirty, in her face, fuck or walk style.
Ironically if you have a good level of game you can usually find this girl within 3 sets.
Table steal
If you are in a venue with a table then steal it. Your brothers out there may not know this awesome stuff you know, they may have unwittingly decided to spring for a table with lots of booze just so they have a means to talk to the many, many beautiful woman around.
And you’re job is to use that lack of game to further your own game. This changes based in what city you are in but the principles are all the same and I remember running around Copenhagen a few years back doing this myself with 2 wings and the attention we got was epic.
Walk up to a couple of dudes with no women and a nice table, tell them you have 4 or 5 girls with you and they want to sit down, is it cool if they come chill at the dudes table, mention that at least a few of the girls are hot. Usually they agree. Thank them, get their names and introduce yourself before rolling off.
Note: Sometimes you’ll get gay guys with tables… Either you’re in the wrong club or they’ll proposition you to come join them anyway. This is cool, gay guys are excellent wings just watch out for them trying to Gay-me you. ‘Nuff said.
Open a group of women, ideally a logistically difficult set to pull, it could be your first set. Win the whole group over and then tell them you’re partying with some friends at a table (you remembered the guys names right?) then drag em over to the guys.
At this point you introduce the guys and go open the set you actually want to pull, a nice 2 or 3 set perhaps, same MO but now you’re socially proofed and pulling your ideal set to the table. FYI, the table also acts as a good pivot place for the rest of the night, no matter what happens you can always return there and chill.
Part of this is just straight getting your venue right, a venue with rich chodes and way more women then men will mean that you’re going to crush it in field and have a fun free night. Just remember, you are bringing value to everyone when you do this, it’s not about wrecking someone elses night.
The 100% Consistent Opener
Usually I’d never say that any opener is 100% consistent and yet this one has yet to let me down in the nearly 4 years I’ve been using it… Now I’ve only used it one day of the year each time but so far 3 days in a row with no bad reactions and it hooks the set most of the time too.
The only condition is you use it after midnight – New Years Day… The opener goes something like this:
“Happy New Years!”
Deceptively simple isn’t it, but you can run around and open every set with this with a super happy sub-comm and life will be good to you, as will the women.
Well that about wraps it up for this one but come back and check out the blog on New Years day (if you aren’t too worse for wear) as Mehow and myself will be giving you a blog on how to set yourself up for maximum success in 2012.
Till then Happy New Year to you all,
-D and Mehow
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Hey Mehow team, I really identify with AAS style attraction and think HVV game is great; however, I also have a background in training with Adam Lyons before I found your stuff, and as a result I’d personally feel more comfortable in a lot of situations establishing social comfort with a set before jumping straight into attraction. I’m trying to find a way to synthesize the two ideas; however, I haven’t found a way to make it feel completely natural yet because jumping into HVV attraction feels like too dramatic of a leap. Any ideas on how I could synthesize these concepts? I usually try to get a long way to social comfort through opening a lot of sets around my target set with a question or so and pre-opening my target set. I’m wondering if there’s a way to ask a few basic social comfort style questions in a slightly fun HVV way to better integrate these models. Or, another thought was just to cycle between social questions and slightly dulled HVV stuff for a few sequences. Hope you don’t feel disrespected by me bringing up other models, I genuinely do find a lot of value in what you have offered to the community, and would love to find a way to seamlessly blend these two models. Thanks for your consideration!
Chris, ya there are probably ways to smoothly blend the two models.
what kind of “pre-opening” and “questions” do you use to create “social comfort” and ill give you some HVV stuff that should blend.
-m
Just realized you wrote back to this, really cool of you to offer to help. I’m actually in San Diego for a conference at the moment and already started running into the army dudes.
So, with the social comfort: typically I’ll open at least four sets around a target set using basic functional openers when I don’t care too much about these adjacent sets (asking them the scores of a sports game, what other bars are decent in the area, etc.) talking to them for just a few seconds to get a bit of social proof. Somewhere in that mix of opening those other sets, I’ll typically pre-open someone in the target set with a compliment opener coupled with a reason for the compliment (e.g., Wow, you’ve got a great sense of style. I can tell you put a lot of time into your look with the way your dress brings out the color in your blah blah blah, I really appreciate that). Later, I’ll generally re-open someone else in the set with a situational opener (e.g., What is that that you’re drinking, it looks awesome”) before giving a qualification statement (e.g., “Wow, you guys seem really friendly!”) and transitioning to an opinion opener (since I have a weird thing for girls with relatively short hair, one I made up that I use a lot goes like this when I notice a girl with a short haircut: (“One of my female friends recently got a short haircut for the first time. We were talking the other night and what came up I thought was really interesting, she told me that she noticed that the kind of guys that talk to her when she wears her hair long vs. short differ substantially. So, I was wondering what your experience with that’s been. When I was listening to my friend, it seemed almost like short hair might lead women to give off a vibe like they’re strong, independent, leader types, and as a result they draw in a lot of shy, insecure guys who want someone to take care of them, and on the complete opposite end of the spectrum, they sometimes also draw in some super independent guys who view them as equals. But based on what we talked about, it sounded like most normal guys in the middle of that spectrum lose interest or get scared off by girls with short hair. What has your experience been?”). After the opinion opener, I’ll usually ask questions or make cold reading statements to try to establish a commonality or two, and that’s about where I can say I probably have social comfort (if not sooner) and would like to transition into attraction, AAS style.
Mehow I have no idea if this will get to you or not, but I’m hoping. I read The Game in 2008 & I have been in & out of active status over these few years. Ive followed every thing you have done, I just wish I could say I had enough money to take part. The thing is though.. I’m in California visiting my sister for a few days, and I’ve been opening every store clerk or waitress I can trying to find something to do tonight and just only coming back with maybe plans. I know I have what it takes, it would just be insane to have the opportunity to party big like I need to. The Residential must have been a dream. If you are still in LA tonight I assume you’re doing it fucking big. Larger than fucking life. I know it’s a long shot but you would make this young “pua”s dream if I could party with you tonight. When you see this, Trust Your Gut. If Not, have an awesome fucking night my friend. 10SSA!!
dillon, i was actually “partying” with my parents in VA. so nothing big lol
I love the ‘table steal’ idea, its great for group theory, although your ‘happy new years’ opener is awsome, I’d love to know what I could follow it up with in case I get a little tongue tied on the night as my conversational skills are for shit. Any ideas guys ???
you need an attracion stack Al. there are tons in our forum.
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Hey Mehow:
GuidoLover69 here….Good NYE advice man….I’ve tried this one before where you befriend the rich chodes in a club and bring the HB’s to their table and end up pouring drinks for all the ladies….Net result, is the HBs see you pouring the drinks and being the alpha guy of the group, thus sky rocketing your value and you end up going to the rich chumps place, getting your own room to score with the hottest babe….I believe Richard La Ruina from PUA Training mentions a similar technique in that DVD he was selling Beyond Pick-Up (DONT want to plug another company as YOUR COMPANY DOES IT WAY BETTER)…Not to change the subject, but I can’t help but noticing that your 10SSA system game has a similar effect as DYD’s Cocky-Funny style of building attraction…..Obviously, its a completely separate system as 10ssa is designed for mid-game, but they both seem to have the same net result….10SSA is way more structured with micro-loop theory and calibrated sound bytes…Cocky-Comedy has no real structure and involves the memorization of sound bites and coming up with your own sound bites, accompanied by a semi-solid inner game….The good thing about 10SSA is you dont need super solid innner game to implement it as long as you can calibrate it….I may start a blog about the similarities and contrast between 10SSA and DYD Cocky and Funny on your blog forum…Glad to hear you are making it out to Chicago again in May with your bootcamp…Cheers! –GuidoLover 69