Big pieces of news today.
I have a major change to how I run phone game that I’m just plain giving away below along with a huge example thread right from my own phone.
I’ve been in field a ton recently screening for my TV show wifey (look for big public announcement on that really soon … the TV show … not the wifey) and sarging in LA is great.
But I’ve been having a problem.
Too many girls that are really, really into me then suddenly flake during phone game.
Now traditionally, I love being on the phone (as in actually talking on the phone) with girls … because I’m great at it. And if i can get a girl on the phone its been on in the past.
The problem is that in the last 6 months or so I’ve noticed a lot of general text and phone and meetup flaking whenever I’ve tried to call and usually girls don’t pickup.
I’m also noticing that women (and me) prefer texting. I’m a massive texter. I even use texting for biz all the time. It’s just a better, more efficient, less intrusive way of communicating and you can reply from just about anywhere including work.
This wasn’t the case say … 4 years ago. Back then phone game was still key.
So given all this new infield and observed data i changed up my phone game.
I’m completely eliminating talking on the phone unless …
- its been 3 or more days of texting and you need to talk to her to arrange logistics (like “im outside your place, come down”)
- or the set has been dead air for days so you might as well try and get her on the phone
But basically I just don’t do phone calls at all anymore.
NO VOICE PHONE CALLS AT ALL!
And the second I started doing that everything changed and I went out with 3 girls in 3 days. Ms Mehow.tv is in there somewhere but finding her is super fun.
My theory was then confirmed by all my coaches and wings that tried the same thing.
Here is what we think …
These days, particularly with younger girls under 30, calling at all is needy regardless of how much she likes you or how good your phone game is.
And when I removed that I had an instant flip in results from 50/50 of sets I was interested in seeing me to all of them.
So there you have it.
You don’t even have to practice phone game.
It’s just plain pretty much useless.
(even when I got girls on the phone, it seemed to needy, even if the call went well)
What does that mean for your text game?
It means that you invite girls out like sooo over text super causally like …
“Let’s go get some coffee, now”
Below is an entire thread from my phone for a girl I went out with that was never called.
The thing about this girl is she was a …
“Hotty With A Goat”
Yes, back home, not in LA, she has a pet goat.
I’m sorry but that was just so much fun I almost wrote a book about “goat technique” …. here is the entire thread … edited only to protect privacy.
Feel free to cut and paste some of it … or all of it … if your girl has a goat.
Goats are getting more popular these days.
Hotty With A Goat Text Thread:
Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:40:28 PM HBGoatGirl
Did you feed the goat today?
Received Jan 15, 2012 1:41:12 PM HBGoatGirl
Lol…no my mom already did sooo
Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:45:03 PM HBGoatGirl
Hi ….. So if you live in your moms basement …. Where does the goat live?
Received Jan 15, 2012 1:48:04 PM HBGoatGirl
Upstairs in a nice bedroom with a king size mattress and vanity… Also gets breakfast in bed.. Mom said until I’m house broke I have to stay in the basement : /@
Sent Jan 15, 2012 1:54:23 PM HBGoatGirl
Wow … your mom is a bitch … did you confront her about her relationship with the goat?
Received Jan 15, 2012 1:55:47 PM HBGoatGirl
A few times, but I don’t want to be beaten anymore
Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:03:39 PM HBGoatGirl
She was a world champ sumo wrestler so I understand
Received Jan 15, 2012 2:04:21 PM HBGoatGirl
Glad somebody does
Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:18:31 PM HBGoatGirl
Your freaking hilarious … there were a zillion people here last nite but I missed my special goat loving, trailer residing, nebraska redneck girl
Received Jan 15, 2012 2:24:29 PM HBGoatGirl
Oh god I’m glad I wasn’t there so you couldn’t introduce me as that!
Sent Jan 15, 2012 2:33:27 PM HBGoatGirl
“This is … and it’s better if you ignore her goat.”
Received Jan 15, 2012 2:35:35 PM HBGoatGirl
This is … And she obviously has “Farm girl problems”
Sent Jan 15, 2012 3:56:52 PM HBGoatGirl
What are you doing later?
Sent Jan 15, 2012 4:19:49 PM HBGoatGirl
I was thinking we could go roast your goat for dinner … And then you could have her old room
Received Jan 15, 2012 6:10:21 PM HBGoatGirl
Sorry I fell asleep… I’m recovering. There’s only one problem with roasting the goat and that’s my sumo wrestling momma
Sent Jan 15, 2012 6:53:19 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat must die
Received Jan 15, 2012 6:56:25 PM HBGoatGirl
Sent Jan 15, 2012 7:28:02 PM HBGoatGirl
Actually one time I was in Omaha – I stayed at the casino
Received Jan 15, 2012 7:28:31 PM HBGoatGirl
Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:02:44 PM HBGoatGirl
Horseshoe I think – but your not even from Omaha, right? That’s too big for you … You grew up in some totally small and redneck place right?
Received Jan 15, 2012 8:04:19 PM HBGoatGirl
Totally BUT I do think/ know outside the box
Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:28:30 PM HBGoatGirl
Always think outside the goat
Received Jan 15, 2012 8:29:21 PM HBGoatGirl
I’m starting to regret telling you about the goat lol
Sent Jan 15, 2012 8:53:50 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat is the funniest thing ever … I heart the goat
Received Jan 15, 2012 8:59:26 PM HBGoatGirl
Too bad it’s a true story : (
Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:09:10 PM HBGoatGirl
I’m walking over to saddle ranch in a bit … You can bring the goat … They cool with it there
Received Jan 15, 2012 9:15:32 PM HBGoatGirl
The goat would get jealous if I rode the bull : /
Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:28:22 PM HBGoatGirl
You can’t let the goat run you … You run the goat
Received Jan 15, 2012 9:30:22 PM HBGoatGirl
Yes my dearest psychologist
Sent Jan 15, 2012 9:44:51 PM HBGoatGirl
Ugh … No
Received Jan 15, 2012 9:46:15 PM HBGoatGirl
Lol JK! Too soon?
Sent Jan 15, 2012 10:09:58 PM HBGoatGirl
I mean everybody sleeps with their shrink but I hate being one
Received Jan 15, 2012 10:11:14 PM HBGoatGirl
I hear ya
Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:04:00 PM HBGoatGirl
I met your twin last nite
Received Jan 16, 2012 12:04:51 PM HBGoatGirl
Oh man…I’m scared
Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:23:54 PM HBGoatGirl
You guys looked identical from behind so we started talking
Received Jan 16, 2012 12:30:25 PM HBGoatGirl
Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:44:58 PM HBGoatGirl
Your gonna have to get an ass tattoo so I can tell you apart
Received Jan 16, 2012 12:46:05 PM HBGoatGirl
How about a tramp stamp?
Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:48:31 PM HBGoatGirl
You are so redneck its hilarious … with you I can do all the redneck things I want to do in LA but can’t find the people for
Received Jan 16, 2012 12:50:47 PM HBGoatGirl
Haha! AND I can’t judge you bc you know..I’m white trash n stuff
Sent Jan 16, 2012 12:56:54 PM HBGoatGirl
Your probably really good at shooting cans in your back yard
Received Jan 16, 2012 1:00:28 PM HBGoatGirl
Fo SHO and shooting prairie dogs
Sent Jan 16, 2012 1:13:46 PM HBGoatGirl
I usually go shooting once a week here at the range so we have that in common
Received Jan 16, 2012 1:22:59 PM HBGoatGirl
We can add that to the list
Sent Jan 16, 2012 1:34:47 PM HBGoatGirl
When you free to hang?
Received Jan 16, 2012 1:49:15 PM HBGoatGirl
Mmmmm idk it’s one of those things where u just gotta say hey what’s up
Sent Jan 16, 2012 2:32:18 PM HBGoatGirl
I know … I just did … Do country girls not speak the Engrish
Received Jan 16, 2012 2:48:04 PM HBGoatGirl
Hey now… I’m free
Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:13:42 PM HBGoatGirl
Cool – let’s grab some coffee – where you at ?
Received Jan 16, 2012 3:16:06 PM HBGoatGirl
Damn now I gotta look like an legit human being.. Where u wanna go
Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:17:12 PM HBGoatGirl
There this amazing coffee joint down the street – is so amazing – but you can dress down
Received Jan 16, 2012 3:17:50 PM HBGoatGirl
Kk…what’s the addy or the name
Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:23:42 PM HBGoatGirl
It’s in Bev hills i just drive there – come to queens …
Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:24:08 PM HBGoatGirl
First house on left on queens – right next to andaz on sunset
Received Jan 16, 2012 3:25:54 PM HBGoatGirl
Funny thing about that is I came to LA with no truck just 2 bags & a plane ticket smart ass
Received Jan 16, 2012 3:26:33 PM HBGoatGirl
But yes I’m coming to queens give me a sec
Sent Jan 16, 2012 3:28:46 PM HBGoatGirl
… I need to find my country hat
Received Jan 16, 2012 3:29:42 PM HBGoatGirl
Received Jan 16, 2012 4:08:38 PM HBGoatGirl
Sent Jan 16, 2012 4:11:26 PM HBGoatGirl
p.s. if you enjoyed that but don’t know how i come up with all the improv .. I have a super precise method for that that anybody can do … it’s here www.10secondattraction.com.
p.p.s. this is just a random pic of social circle from the house. just a cute pic. this isn’t “goat girl” btw this is a diff one.